The ultimate maid of honor supports the bride, manages the bridesmaids, and generally is just available to assist the bride.
She’s the one taking the bride’s late night teary phone calls. She’s the one who straightens out the bride’s wedding dress train during the wedding ceremony. She is the one who plans the bachelorette party and entertains the bride’s grandma at the bridal shower.
In other words, the maid of honor is part worker bee and part emotional lifeboat. From attending bridal fairs and dress fittings with the bride all the way to making the maid of honor wedding toast (see 5 Tips For Giving An Amazing Maid of Honor Wedding Toast), the maid of honor is the bride’s go-to gal, as noted in How to Be an Awesome Maid of Honor in 7 Steps.
Here are some great tips and advice on how to be the ultimate maid of honor, from PopSugar: